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At the end of 2017, I made the hard decision to pack up my daughter and dog and leave everything I had worked to build, downsize and try full-time hotel living for a while. It may seem to be an odd decision, but for those who are asking “can you live in a hotel” the answer is a resounding yes. There were a lot of reasons why I made the decision I did, but one of them was because living in a hotel saves money. I was restarting my life – yet again – and saving money was really high on my list.
To be honest, moving into a hotel was something that I had considered for quite a long time, but because people seem to look down on it, I put it off more than once. Just ask anyone who travels in an RV full-time about the reactions they get. It simply does not make sense to me to go into debt or pay as much as I would for an RV when I could buy a cheap starter home for around that same amount. However, full-time hotel living required none of the debt and actually saved me quite a bit of money each month. It accomplished the same thing that an RV or camper van would have and still gave my daughter and I the freedom to travel if we wanted or to stay put some place if we wanted.
How to Live in a Hotel {and Why You Should Try Full-Time Hotel Living}
I have always been one to crave a simple life and in fact, I go out of my way to find new ways to live simply. Living simply is not only about the simple things in life, but in my mind, it is also a fantastic way to save money. It is my dream to someday own a small, self-sufficient hobby farm. When my relationship ended in June 2016, I knew that I would eventually downsize quite a bit since it was just my daughter and I at the time. So, I took a year to sell pretty much everything I owned and when the time was right, we moved into that hotel.
How to Live in a Hotel
Full-time hotel living was a huge leap of faith for me. We were leaving an a 1,900 square foot, 3 bedroom, 2.5 bath home with a fenced in backyard and 2 car garage. We left a neighborhood with tree lined streets and a community pool. Almost everything we owned had been sold or given away. We moved into a hotel room that was maybe 300 square feet on a good day. The adjustment was huge, but surprisingly, it wasn’t as hard as I had expected it to be initially.
Can You Live in a Hotel?
I don’t do anything without research. When I researching how to live in a hotel full-time, I had my choice of extended stay hotels to choose from. Each one offered a different number of rates and amenities. Since I had a child with me, I had a few absolute needs. I not only needed a kitchenette, but I needed one with a stove and preferred a full-size fridge. It is hard enough to feed a kid in a hotel, but it would have been much worse trying to do so with a dorm size fridge and microwave. I also needed a laundry on site and a pet-friendly hotel.
In the end, I chose to move us into a Woodsprings Suites location. It offered everything I needed it to; full size fridge, a 2 burner stove, cabinet space, laundry and WiFi that offered both a free and upgraded version. They are also pet friendly which meant I could bring our dog with as I had originally planned. As with most extended stay hotels, it was cheaper to pay by the month than it was weekly or bi-weekly so that was the option we chose.
How to live in a hotel with kids
Before we made the move to full-time hotel living, I thought the biggest adjustments would be missing the items we left behind or got rid of. In reality, the biggest adjustment was being together in such a small space. There was quite literally nowhere one of us could go in the room to get away from each other which meant if we needed a break from the other, one of us – obviously me since I was the adult – had to go downstairs to get away from the other. It was a real adjustment at first, but it was not an issue even though she was homeschooled at the time. She had extra curricular activities she did twice a week and since those activities were drop off activities, I used that time to recharge and enjoy the alone time.
I can’t say what living in a motel would be like with multiple children, but I can tell you there were several families where we were who were doing just that and successfully. If you have more than an “only,” it is still worth looking into whether living in a hotel will save you money or not.
What type of hotel is best to live in?
While you can live in a regular hotel or motel – and I have done that as well back when Emma and I were getting on our feet after being homeless – it is far better to live in an extended stay hotel than a regular room. Extended stays are made just for that – extended stays. They often have kitchenettes, larger rooms, more storage and better long-term rates. In fact, I would go as far as to say our hotel room was more studio apartment than it was hotel room.
If you’re considering living in an extended stay hotel too, you’ll need to find one that will fit your family. For my little family, Woodspring Suites fit that bill. The rooms are decent sized and the cost was less than I would have paid for rent and utilities in a city like where we were living at the time. Austin, Texas is quite expensive to live in. It was the cost factor that ultimately helped make my mind up to move into a Woodsprings location.
In addition to that, Woodspring Suites typically had better reviews on Trip Advisor for the locations I was looking at than other extended stay hotels. Reviews for hotels are super important and I am a fiend when it comes to reading them for any location my children will be sleeping in. Once I made my decision, I booked our room with Woodsprings Suites online at the monthly rate to save money.
Must Have Items for Living in a Hotel
During our time living in that hotel, I very quickly discovered that there were certain items that were pretty much must-have’s for those who are full-time motel living. Mainly they revolved around the kitchen area and items that made the small space manageable. As you can see in the photo above, we had a full-size fridge, a sink, cabinets and a 2-burner cook stove. Having the ability to cook meals was important to me and I loved that I don’t have to fight with a dorm sized fridge like most hotels offer. Having the larger fridge let me keep the ability to shop for a few weeks at a time and to continue menu planning so I could keep my grocery costs down.
When we moved in, I knew that I wouldn’t have a lot of space for kitchen gear and gadgets so to keep things simple, I bought THIS set of nesting cooking pots. This allowed me to have 4 saucepans and a fry pan with lids and a removable handle that sat down inside of each other to save space. I also brought along my InstantPot so that I would have the ability to cook quickly and to make Crockpot recipes without needing to have an actual Crockpot on hand. Finally, because I wanted to be able to continue to make recipes like my chocolate chip quick bread recipe, I brought along a large counter top toaster oven that I had at the house. It was large enough to fit a 9×13 baking dish, had a convection setting and worked fantastic for when I need to bake. For dishes, we brought a dinnerware set for four. This gave us 4 plates, 4 bowls and 4 drinking cups. I bought the same amount of silverware. Cooking utensils were kept only to the ones I actually use a regular basis and to one of each type.
The Instant Pot, toaster oven, baking dishes and cookware were all stored in the lower cabinets with my roll up dish strainer. Having a dish strainer that rolled up makes dishes easy to do and saved space since it wasn’t taking up a huge spot under the counter. Dishes were stored in the upper cabinet with my cooking spices stored in the other cabinet. Silverware and my kitchen knives – I brought 2 with me – were stored in the one kitchen drawer that is actually a drawer. The rest of the cooking utensils, my hand mixer, pot holders and kitchen towels were stored in a 3 drawer storage cart that sat to the right of the kitchen counter.
Saving money living in a hotel
It is no secret that living simply saves money which is one reason I’m such a fan of minimalist living. When I looked at my expenses after moving into the hotel, I wasn’t surprised that we were saving money, but the amount of money I was saving was a shock. We had lived in an expensive area and we were renters so the truth is that living in a hotel was quite a bit cheaper for me than living in the house had been. It really wouldn’t have mattered if we had bought a house either since our house payment would likely have been almost as much as our rent payments.
My monthly expenses in the house looked like this:
- Rent: $1600
- Power – $400
- Natural Gas – $100
- Water/Trash – $100
- Net – $112
- Lawn care – $124
- Pest control and other minor home maintenance: $100
Total: $2536.00/mo
Since we lived in a subdivision with an HOA, our lawn had to be cared for in a specific way. This alone resulted in $31 each week going out. Power was so high because here in Texas it gets hot. It is expensive to cool 1900 square feet. Pest control was up to us according to my lease as was minor home repairs such as changing air filters and the like. Because of these fees and regular expenses for living in a home, I was spending over $2500/mo just for basic living costs. That does not include groceries and other monthly fees that must be paid for.
After moving into a hotel, my monthly expenses looked like this to cover the exact same basic needs:
- Hotel room – $1440.00
- Laundry: $40.00
Total: $1480
Since I no longer had a washer and dryer, I have to have a place to wash clothes. For the most part, a good friend allowed me to use his washer and dryer for laundry, but should I have needed to pay for laundry, the cost would have been around $40.00 a month to use the hotel’s facilities. I factored that in when doing my budget so I had a true idea of how much I was spending. I also did not have separate utility payments since everything including internet was factored into my room cost.
My monthly room rate was also tax-free. The State of Texas considers you a resident of a hotel after 30-days which means after your first 30-day stay, you do not have to pay taxes on your bill. This saved me around $200 a month.
Total savings per month because of full-time hotel living: $1,056 per month or a HUGE $12,672.00 per year.
Why live in a hotel? Why not downsize to an apartment?
I can hear the question now so I figured I would go ahead and answer it. “If you wanted to downsize, why not just rent a smaller apartment?” As I explained earlier, living in an extended stay hotel allowed us to travel whenever we felt like it. Traveling is important to both Emma and myself so we wanted to live in a place that would allow us to do so. Also, the average cost of an apartment in Central Texas is $1300.00 per month. That usually does not include utilities which means I would still be spending $2,000 or so each month. For what? For a home that was cluttered with items that cost money to buy, items that we didn’t really need and things that neither of us actually wanted.
Instead, we chose to live a life that was a lot less stressful and a whole lot cheaper. We lived in that hotel for six months before going back home to Ohio to stay with friends for a couple of months. After my Mom’s death in February 2018, we came home to Texas because my long-time boyfriend and I had decided to move in together and start our lives together.
If you have been considering moving into a hotel – no matter what your reasons for considering it – I highly encourage you to take the leap of faith it requires. If you are unsure, put your belongings in storage for a month and test it out. If you decide it is not for you, you’re not out anything but a month of your time. For my daughter and I, it provided the kind of life we needed so we could restart.
For those that have already made the decision to try full-time hotel living, I can’t recommend WoodSprings Suites enough. You can check them out HERE on the WoodSprings website if you are interested.
*This post was originally published in November 2017. Updated March 2019.
I’ve lived in a hotel for almost 6 years. I’m a minimalist, and I don’t like cleaning, so this has been an ideal situation for me. Also, I get points from both my credit card and the hotel, so that helps defray some costs.
For most folks who are living in rental homes or larger than they need mortgages, the costs of hotel living are quite cheaper. That was definitely the case with my daughter and I.
Did you have to go to a hotel that was out of your state or can you stay in a motel in the city you are currently living in?
We stayed in the same city. It worked out especially well since Texas has residency requirements that made our stay tax free after the first 30 days.
I am a recovering alcoholic at 35 who is about to graduate a half way house and now I have nowhere to go I have a great job and all I keep hearing is do the next right thing,pray, and don’t drink no matter what so that’s what I have been doing and I feel like I am getting the short end of the stick. As of September 1,2019 I will be homeless. I have been looking for an apartment for 4 months and all of them rent based on your credit something that I don’t have, I figured this would be my only option until my husband gets out of jail and we can relocate to SC where the cost of living is not so high.
Jessica, congrats on your sobriety. I am one who will not tell you that all you need to do each day is “pray and don’t drink.” It is much harder than that and as life progresses, you will fight your addiction every step of the way.
You can however, do it. The fact that you reached out for help shows that.
The hotel is not a bad idea. In fact, we preferred it to the house we have now in a lot of ways. It is simpler. Try not to think of it as being homeless. Think of it as the next step in your journey to getting your life back and things back on track.
Good luck!
What about your driver license?
As someone who has moved many times, and even once been thrown in jail for not changing state I’d or residence location quick enough, did you change your identification to reflect your new living space? And what do you tell on check in? Do you just say you are planning to stay for a few months, maybe more? Not tell them you plan to reside there?
Hi Chris, Here in Texas, my box at the UPS store was enough to establish domicile (residency). For my license address, I was able to use that address as my residency establishment and a good friends as the actual address for the license.
Thank you so much for taking the time to shareyour knowledge and experience! I truly appreciate it!
I never realized how much cheaper it is living in a hotel full-time. I have everything I need lights, gas, and water are included in the hotel rent, and I have a kitchen with dishes and pots for me to use, a place to do laundry, furniture and cleaning service.
What I also notice is I am hardly ever in my room its rare of me to stay in my room for a whole day do to my working full-time and I do travel often as well, its super convenient. This was no change from living in an apartment, I was hardly ever home, and all it was used for now that I think about it was a storage area/dumping ground for stuff I would buy that I did not really need.
Since the move these days I prefer experiences over getting more stuff that I’ll never use or do not need.
My only issue is since I work for the city my job is on me about renting an apartment, do to one of the requirements for the job is to have a city residence, and I can not use a commercial mail box as my mailing address, for people who do not have a home to live in the city they live in called any time mail box. And I told the general manager its a mail box for people like me who have no home. And I have to keep reminding the general manager I have no credit to rent an apartment and I am in this living situation do to the work harassments and work without pay suspension, and I have to build up my credit in order to be qualified to rent an apartment.
The GM wanted me to go to a homeless shelter and I called around and I learned that I do not qualify for homeless assistance do to my not being low income, I have no kids, and I am not in a domestic situation.
And when I called these places and Emailed as well, they were relived to know that I am living in a hotel. To which the GM thought hotel living was not safe and very expensive, and she said she was worried about how this situation was effecting me, and I had to tell her I was not at all worried I did my research. And I had to remind the GM, a woman like me would be seen ad a rich girl if I was to live in a homeless shelter and I know for a fact that I would get attacked. Once I kept repeating over and over that I do not qualify for homeless help the GM finally dropped my going to a homeless shelter.
Now the GM said she was going to try and see about getting me a lawyer to help me get an apartment to rent. And after she said that I realized that its not about me having a cheap place to live or a safe place to live either it about her trying to save face do to my job putting me in the living situation I am in at the moment.
I have to meet with the GM again next month, along with a print out of the hotel receipts with the dates on it showing where I am living at the moment, just like I did at the last meeting. And she wants me to come up with a dollar amount and I have to tell her how much money I am saving each month.
I am not going to tell her I am saving money for vacation time or tell her I am also saving money for voice acting school, (this in none of her business to know my private info, and the job also sends out spies to make sure one is living where they say they are living.) I went to a work shop last year and was told I qualify for tons of voice acting work.
Oh, and I house sit are also which also helps me to save even more money. I am hoping to work up to getting longer house sitting jobs.
And thanks to the house sitting community I learned that there are people who live in hotels full-time. And I also learned in my research that there are also other people out there (not in the house sitting community) that also live in hotels full-time, too. Not only are they called Extended Stays or Suites there are some places call Aparthotels (apartment hotels).
I have not heard a peep from the GM about her talk with the lawyer.
I know that my situation with my job is going to absolutely help a future employee who will also end up in my situation.
Caroline, check residency laws for your state. In some states (Texas that I know for sure), if you’re in an extended stay hotel for 30 days, you are considered a resident of the hotel. Also, if you’re in an extended stay, check with the mgr of the hotel. Most will allow you to use their address as a physical address if you plan on being there for a while.