Preparing for the proposal can make you feel nervous and exhilarated all at the same time. You want your sweetheart to feel your love and to be truly awed when you pop the question. When designing the big moment, you will want this outlined down to minute details to ensure that the experience is everything you both hoped it would be. This monumental moment is one that you and your soon to be fiancé(e) will remember forever. As you look to create the perfect moment, consider these tips so that you can have the memories of a lifetime.
The Ring
The ring is the ultimate symbol of your love, so you need to be sure to do your research ahead of time. Whether you peruse your sweetie’s Pinterest board, ask close, trusted friends and family or request details from your sweetheart, make sure that you have a clear idea of what style, design, cut, color and type of rings they like. While some may wait until after the proposal to fit the ring, a paper ring sizer can save you a lot of hassle down the line by painting you a clearer picture of an appropriate ring size. This ring is something your future fiancé(e) will wear forever as an outward expression of your relationship, so make sure to choose one that checks all the boxes.
Proposal Ideas
The premise of the proposal should be a direct reflection of your relationship as a couple. This means that not every type of proposal is for everyone. Whether you are looking for creative ways to propose marriage or you are looking for a romantic movie choice like proposing on a hill at sunset, it is important to choose an option that best suits the two of you.
Location
The location is an important consideration when planning your proposal. If your significant other tends to shy away from larger gatherings or feels awkward being the center of attention, displaying your proposal on a Jumbotron at a sports arena is likely not the best option. While some may be comfortable with a very public proposal, knowing whether your sweetheart prefers a public versus private setting as the backdrop for your big moment is an important factor to consider. This proposal decision is one that should be focused on your relationship, so do not let any suggestions or societal norms distract you from your person.
Audience
Much like the idea and the location, an audience may not be perfect for every couple. As you look for your audience, this can include the general public who may be present, family and friends. For those very close with their family, you may want to loop them in ahead of time but still, have your private moment. These days it has become increasingly popular to have family and friends hidden away close by or at a gathering immediately following the big moment. Who you include in the proposal of engagement is highly personal and should be something that adds to your big moment, not detracts.
Budget
While social media thrive on extravagant and even over the top proposals, this is surely not a feasible or desirable option for every couple. If you are looking to have a beautifully memorable moment, but need to stick to a budget (Six Dollar Family) with your proposal, know that there are options. While you may not be hiring a professional photographer to document your big moment, you will certainly create exquisite and breath-taking memories with your soon to be fiancé(e). Designating and sticking to a wedding budget are both common and extremely reasonable when you don’t have unlimited funds to invest.
Your engagement will be filled with incredible memories and moments that will be sure to bring a tear to your loved ones’ eyes; however, each proposal is a highly personal process. The event itself should be a reflection of your love and life together and the future that you are excited to start as a married couple. As long as you make decisions that are right for the two of you, you will have an amazing moment.